Laura Ahearn, Invitations to love: Literacy, love
letters, and social change in Nepal. Ann Arbor: University of
Michigan Press, 2001. Pp. xvi, 295. Pb $24.95.
“Sarita, I'm helpless….” Laura Ahearn begins
her ethnography with a love letter, 21-year-old Bir Bahadur's first
to Sarita, “whose long, black hair, fashionable Punjabi outfits, and
demure giggles had caught his eye” (p. 3). Ahearn ponders the
increasing use of such letters amid changes in literacy and marriage
practices, understandings and expressions of emotions, and efforts of the
Nepali state and other organizations to develop places like Junigau, the
village in which most of the book's action takes place. By the
book's conclusion, Ahearn has provided the means to understand the
subtle paradox in Bir Bahadur's letter – that he asserts that
he is “helpless” at the same time that he initiates an
invitation. Ahearn demonstrates in exquisite detail that such expressions
must be considered within the wider, shifting context of practices through
which they emerge: that which instantiates the expression, literacy in all
of its guises, and that which makes the expression meaningful, the
emergence of a discourse of development that characterizes people, places,
and activities.