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- A Philosopher Looks at Friendship
- A Philosopher Looks at
- A Philosopher Looks at Friendship
- Copyright page
- Dedication
- Contents
- Acknowledgements
- Prelude: Eighteen Aphorisms
- 1 Three Friendships – and Lots of Questions
- 2 Philosophers of Friendship: An Apology
- 3 Why I Don’t Start with a Formal Definition of Friendship
- 4 Examples of Friendship
- 5 Beginning the Natural History of Friendship
- 6 Deepening the Natural Historical Account
- 7 Being with Others
- 8 Lewis’s Four Loves – and Nygren’s Two
- 9 Aristotle’s Three Kinds of Philia – and Aristotle’s Will
- 10 Friendship, Love, and Second-Personality
- 11 Friendship as an Unemphatic Good
- 12 Bertrand Russell and His Over-Emphatic ‘German’ Friend
- 13 Sensitivity to Tacit Knowledge
- 14 Innocence
- 15 Moralism
- 16 Roles and Spontaneity
- 17 The Benefits of Friendship
- 18 Eighteen Quick Questions and Eighteen Quick Answers
- References
- Index
1 - Three Friendships – and Lots of Questions
Published online by Cambridge University Press: 09 November 2024
- A Philosopher Looks at Friendship
- A Philosopher Looks at
- A Philosopher Looks at Friendship
- Copyright page
- Dedication
- Contents
- Acknowledgements
- Prelude: Eighteen Aphorisms
- 1 Three Friendships – and Lots of Questions
- 2 Philosophers of Friendship: An Apology
- 3 Why I Don’t Start with a Formal Definition of Friendship
- 4 Examples of Friendship
- 5 Beginning the Natural History of Friendship
- 6 Deepening the Natural Historical Account
- 7 Being with Others
- 8 Lewis’s Four Loves – and Nygren’s Two
- 9 Aristotle’s Three Kinds of Philia – and Aristotle’s Will
- 10 Friendship, Love, and Second-Personality
- 11 Friendship as an Unemphatic Good
- 12 Bertrand Russell and His Over-Emphatic ‘German’ Friend
- 13 Sensitivity to Tacit Knowledge
- 14 Innocence
- 15 Moralism
- 16 Roles and Spontaneity
- 17 The Benefits of Friendship
- 18 Eighteen Quick Questions and Eighteen Quick Answers
- References
- Index
Summary
The award-winning children’s film Shrek came out at just the right time (in 2001) to be a favourite with our children when they were small, for family viewing (in fact, for multi-repeat family viewing). Shrek is a fairy-tale animation about a sad, lonely, angry, alienated ogre in a world that rejects him for being scary, ugly, and different. With Donkey’s help, Shrek has just rescued the beautiful Princess Fiona from a dragon. Since this is a fairy-tale, Shrek has of course fallen in love with Fiona, but since he is an ogre and she is (apparently) a princess, he is sure his love is in vain. He has always kept up a tough and cynical exterior, but now he has stormed off from Princess Fiona because he has overheard her saying ‘Who could love a hideous, ugly beast?’ – and mistakenly assumed that she meant him.
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- A Philosopher Looks at Friendship , pp. 6 - 32Publisher: Cambridge University PressPrint publication year: 2024