Chapter Five - Women, Marriage, and Family

Summary

1. “Mother, what is marriage about?”

2. “My child, it is spinning, bearing children, and crying.”

The centrality of the family – the nuclear family and the extended kin group – to social organization was a Mediterranean cultural value that the Spanish and Portuguese transplanted to America. This importance of family meant that marriage, the institution that created new families, was viewed by church and state as crucial to an orderly social organization in the colonies. Furthermore, marriage protected females and delineated the boundary between those children who were legitimate (and therefore had legal claim against the family’s property) and those who were not. Although throughout colonial Latin America, legitimate marriage coexisted with other more informal relationships, marriage and the legitimacy it bestowed were marks of status, the indication that one was a person of rank rather than a mere plebeian, a Spaniard rather than a mixed-blood.

As a result, in colonial Latin America marriage was closely tied to race, social status, and economic conditions. Indeed, legal marriage was only overwhelmingly practiced by two socio-racial groups, groups that paradoxically occupied widely separated positions on the social scale. One group with a strong tendency to marry was the white elite (here we can include those who aspired to its ranks). The other group comprised Indians living in rural communities. As we shall see, through marriage these groups were responding to very different types of social pressures.