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Love and Unselfing in Iris Murdoch

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  02 June 2020

Julia Driver*
Affiliation:
The University of Texas at Austin

Abstract

Iris Murdoch believes that unselfing is required for virtue, as it takes us out of our egoistic preoccupations, and connects us to the Good in the world. Love is a form of unselfing, illustrating how close attention to another, and the way they really are, again, takes us out of a narrow focus on the self. Though this view of love runs counter to a view that those in love often overlook flaws in their loved ones, or at least down-play them, I argue that it is compatible with Murdoch's view that love can overlook some flaws, ones that do not speak to the loved one's true self. Unselfing requires that we don't engage in selfish delusion, but a softer view of our loved ones is permitted.

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Copyright © The Royal Institute of Philosophy and the contributors 2020

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