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Men's vulnerability–women's resilience: from widowhood to late-life repartnering

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  22 December 2015

Chaya Koren
Chaya Koren*
Affiliation:
The School of Social Work and The Center for the Study of Society, University of Haifa, 199 Abba Hushi Blv., Mount Carmel, Haifa, Israel
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Correspondence should be addressed to: Chaya Koren, The School of Social Work and The Center for the Study of Society, University of Haifa, 199 Abba Hushi Blv., Mount Carmel, Haifa 3498838, Israel. Phone: 972-54-6345876. Email: [email protected].
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Abstract

Background:

The ongoing increase in life expectancy resulting in people living longer after the death of a lifelong spouse along with the stresses of widowhood is likely to increase the phenomenon of repartnering in old age. The aim of this article is to learn about the attributed meanings of late-life repartnering among older repartnered widows and widowers dealing with widowhood.

Methods:

The experiences of 27 couples (54 participants), in which both partners were widowed, were chosen from two larger studies on late-life repartnering: one took a dyadic perspective (interviewing both partners), and the other took an intergenerational approach (interviewing both partners and offspring). Criterion sampling in both studies used the criteria of widowers who repartnered above age 65 and widows above age 60, remarried or not, living separately, or under the same roof, and who had children and grandchildren from a lifelong marriage that had ended with the death of their spouse. All semi-structured interviews were recorded, transcribed verbatim, and analyzed based on grounded theory principles and dyadic analysis adapted to families.

Results:

Present a grounded model indicating gender differences in dealing with the death of a lifelong spouse. Men tended to experience vulnerability whereas women tended to experience resilience.

Conclusions:

These findings make an innovative contribution by showing the reversal of gender inequality in old age, and gender differences between widows’ and widowers’ coping with widowhood, even though both repartnered. They are discussed in light of (critical) feminist gerontology including contribution to theory development and implications for practice.

Keywords

widowhoodgender differencesrepartneringresiliencevulnerabilityold age(critical) feminist gerontologyqualitative research
Type
Research Article
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International Psychogeriatrics , Volume 28 , Issue 5 , May 2016 , pp. 719 - 731
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Copyright © International Psychogeriatric Association 2015 

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