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Christmas without the kids: Losing children through the child protection system

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  29 February 2016

Cas O’Neill*
Affiliation:
School of Social Work, University of Melbourne, Royal Children’s Hospital, Melbourne, Email: [email protected]

Abstract

Longitudinal research in Victoria is exploring the experience and support needs of birth parents’ and grandparents, children, permanent parents, teachers, social workers and therapists in situations where the children have been permanently removed from their birth families by the child protection system. The research is now halfway through its second three-year phase.

This paper details the findings for ten birth parents, most of whom have been involved in the study for at least three years. The findings are presented through themes of loss, role, boundary, power and support. The research provides clues as to how professionals can offer support to these parents. What the parents want is little enough–for their stories to be heard without blame; to be consulted about their children’s future; and to be offered the possibility of meeting up with parents who have similar experiences.

Type
Research Article
Copyright
Copyright © Cambridge University Press 2005

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