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Widowhood in the fourth age: support exchange, relationships and social participation

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  23 October 2015

L. M. ISHERWOOD ,
D. S. KING  and
M. A. LUSZCZ
L. M. ISHERWOOD*
Affiliation:
National Institute of Labour Studies, Flinders University, Adelaide, Australia.
D. S. KING
Affiliation:
School of Social and Policy Studies, Flinders University, Adelaide, Australia.
M. A. LUSZCZ
Affiliation:
School of Psychology and Flinders Centre for Ageing Studies, Flinders University, Adelaide, Australia.
*
Address for correspondence: Linda Isherwood, National Institute of Labour Studies, Flinders University, GPO Box 2100, Adelaide, South Australia 5001, AustraliaE-mail:linda.isherwood@flinders.edu.au
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Abstract

Widowhood becomes increasingly common with advancing age, and spousal bereavement is likely to present additional challenges for adults in very late life. However, previous studies have not considered the potential heterogeneity of the experience of widowhood for different age cohorts. This study provided a novel examination of the experience of social resources during widowhood in the fourth age. Semi-structured interviews were conducted with 20 widowed older men and women in the fourth age, i.e. aged 85 years and older. Participants were asked about their access to, and mobilisation of, social resources during widowhood in the fourth age. The role that these resources play in adjustment to spousal loss was also explored. During this phase, widowhood was associated with diminished social networks and concurrent challenges related to ageing and health which impacted upon support needs and social participation. Despite requiring and receiving increasing levels of social support, participants strove to maximise independence. Males and those widowed during the fourth age were more likely to experience social isolation, loneliness and unwanted informal support. Through the mobilisation of social resources many oldest-old widowed adults continue to lead socially engaged and meaningful lives. The implications of the findings for future policy and practice are discussed, including the need for programmes to promote the continuing independence, self-directedness and social engagement of widowed individuals experiencing advanced ageing.

Keywords

widowhoodfourth ageageingsocial networkssocial supportsocial activitiesqualitative research
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Ageing & Society , Volume 37 , Issue 1 , January 2017 , pp. 188 - 212
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Copyright © Cambridge University Press 2015 

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