Book contents
- Frontmatter
- Dedication
- Contents
- Preface
- 1 Narcissism in Full Bloom
- 2 Dreams of Glory and Narcissistic Rage
- 3 Great Expectations
- 4 Daughters of Destiny I: Indira Gandhi
- 5 Daughters of Destiny II: Benazir Bhutto
- 6 Narcissism and the Charismatic Leader–Follower Relationship
- 7 Selfobjects: The Special Role of Wives and the Inner Circle
- 8 Narcissism, Entitlement, Sex, and Power
- 9 An Exceptional Exception: The Rise and Fall of Italy’s Silvio Berlusconi
- 10 Phallic Narcissism in the Governor’s Mansion
- 11 The Impact of Illness and Age on Narcissistic Leaders
- 12 Seeking Immortality: Dictators and Their Progeny
- 13 Leaders by Default: Second-Choice Sons
- Concluding Note
- Bibliography
- Index
- References
13 - Leaders by Default: Second-Choice Sons
Published online by Cambridge University Press: 05 November 2014
- Frontmatter
- Dedication
- Contents
- Preface
- 1 Narcissism in Full Bloom
- 2 Dreams of Glory and Narcissistic Rage
- 3 Great Expectations
- 4 Daughters of Destiny I: Indira Gandhi
- 5 Daughters of Destiny II: Benazir Bhutto
- 6 Narcissism and the Charismatic Leader–Follower Relationship
- 7 Selfobjects: The Special Role of Wives and the Inner Circle
- 8 Narcissism, Entitlement, Sex, and Power
- 9 An Exceptional Exception: The Rise and Fall of Italy’s Silvio Berlusconi
- 10 Phallic Narcissism in the Governor’s Mansion
- 11 The Impact of Illness and Age on Narcissistic Leaders
- 12 Seeking Immortality: Dictators and Their Progeny
- 13 Leaders by Default: Second-Choice Sons
- Concluding Note
- Bibliography
- Index
- References
Summary
There is a small group of important international leaders who were not their parents’ first choices to occupy the seats of power. They were raised in politically oriented families, chose their own paths in life (having embraced their own unique interests and skills), but were pushed into leadership positions because their brothers, the initially designated choices to carry on the family torch, died before they were able to fulfill the parents’ dreams of glory. The devastated parents then turned to the sons who were next in line, who had grown up in the shadows of their brothers, and compelled them to abandon their own career ambitions and step in, paving the way for the “second-choice sons” to become leaders by default.
It is interesting to explore how they and their leaderships were impacted by the knowledge that they were not originally selected for the important positions that they eventually came to occupy and by the accompanying pressure that they surely felt at being under the watchful eyes of overbearing parents whose narcissistic needs were suddenly and belatedly projected onto them. What does it mean to grow up in the shadow of the blinding son, the designated hero, eclipsed by his larger-than-life stature?
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- Narcissism and PoliticsDreams of Glory, pp. 196 - 216Publisher: Cambridge University PressPrint publication year: 2014